So I leave. In about 2 weeks. So soon that I have realized that I won't be able to use my Sunday-only ski pass before I go due to the holidays..... What have I done to prepare? More or less nothing. Other than make a lot of lists that are not as organized as I feel they should be. I have been told by those more practiced in long trips that I need to start packing now. However, I will probably end up packing as I always do; minutes before I need to get my ass out the door and on the road. Hopefully it will work as well as it usually does for me and I will not forget anything that will cause me to lose large amounts of time or money. I also have secured a hotel. for three nights after I get in. So I won't be completely stranded when I show up in America... However, where I am staying in Haines prior to the ferry departing is still up in the air. I don't know when I will be arriving in Haines exactly since I am trying to taking the potential for Alaskan weather to complicate things into account.
At the moment, I am emotionally stressed out about the whole thing. I go from being super excited to completely terrified, oh fuck, what have I gotten myself into this time, I don't have a clue what I am doing or how to do it, help me! And then I think about how most of the things I have done have started that way. Almost all notable things in my life follow a similar process:
Step 1: Anna comes up with some idea or becomes involved in some project
Step 2: Anna is excited about the potential and possibilities of the afore mentioned idea/project/etc.
Step 3: Anna starts trying to plan and organize and becomes quickly overwhelmed. Realizes she has no experience whatsoever in the endeavor and has a lot of second thoughts about things.
Step 4: (optional depending on the situation) Anna somehow commits herself to the task so she can not back out. Somewhere she knows she will be a better and cooler person for doing it.
Step 5: Anna experiences emotional stress as Steps 2 and 3 repeat in a cyclical manner.
Step 6: Anna finally has no choice but to execute the plan. She is almost always thrilled with the results and realizes how dumb and unnecessary steps 3 and 5 are.
Right now I am at step 5. So the good news is, step 6 is almost here and I can again feel dumb for the worrying. The great part is that the more I do these things, the less intensely I experience steps 3 and 5. At a certain point, I just have to trust myself that I am more than capable of doing these things.
So there are my thoughts on my first big solo trip. Stay tuned for pictures of my packing.... whenever that happens!
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